Sunday 17 February 2013

OFFENSIVE and DEFENSIVE person.. So, who are you??



Hi visitors.. Okay after reading this very short article, please promise me you guys going to stand in front of a mirror and rate yourself, who are you??
Sometimes people tend to say “ I’m saying the right thing and you the one who wrong”. Have you ever said that maybe to your siblings, family members and friends?? Try recall it back, just back in time.. LOL. Before that i would like to share with you guys what are the differences between OFFENSIVE and DEFENSIVE.. Okay now, clear all thought from your mind and start to think who are you.. Offensive person will always get mad for no reason. This kind of person would stand with what ever he/she believed to be the right thing even though it is crystal clear that the thought he/she had is wrong. This people will blame everything around them in order to illustrate that they are innocent. Meanwhile DEFENSIVE person would defend the thing that obviously is the truth with all evidences and proofs he/she has. This kind of person is always calm and ready to listen to others opinions and critics. Plus, they can be brought into the round table and easily to corporate with others.. This are some of the characteristics of Offensive and Defensive people.. 

Offensive people when confronting other people, they will..

  • Empower your inner child. Start by finding and mastering that famous beast.
  • Weirdness is strength
  • Embrace compensation
  • Focus! Focus! Focus! Normal people have a couple of things on their minds. Truly offensive people don't have that problem. The higher the executive, the more intense is his ability to filter out extraneous material.
  • Say whatever the heck is on your mind. All of us have been in meetings where very successful people nerbled on for hours about nothing anybody understood.
  • Don't get even--get mad. Only small and insignificant people contain their rage, mostly because they have to.
  • Keep your jargon fresh! Buy a business book every six months. Good news on that front! This was just a brief rundown of the seven habits of truly offensive people



Get mad for no reason

Blame the others





Defensive people when confronting other people, they will….


Always be in professional posture
* You become silent
* You start to perspire 
* You feel quite sick inside
* Your heart pounds harder
* You get a rush of adrenaline 
* Your shoulders hunch forward
* Your eyes look towards the ground
* Your body take a few steps backwards
* Your face goes red as more blood flow to it
* Your body tries to make itself appear smaller
* You feel confused as your brain tries to lock down






Explain your opinion to people around

Alright people, so now go to your mirror and look deeply into yourself, especially your inner appearance.
Then if you know who are you know, tell me.... Good Luck people...... 
LOL

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